Dr Samuel A KryellTopic: SEX

Dr Samuel A Kryell

Topic: SEX

One of the greatest headaches of many young

ladies in relationship is the issue of sex. While

they find themselves entangled in love, they also

would not want to offend God by fornicating.

Meanwhile, most young men of today are always

demanding sex before marriage as a proof of

love. If a lady denies her boyfriend (fiance) sex,

he tends to think she either does not love him or

she is seeing another guy. And this throws the

lady into so much confusion. She genuinely loves

the guy but wouldn’t want to give in to sex. If

she denies him, she may lose him and if she gives

in too she disobeys God. Sorry to our ladies.

Gentleman, please know that it is absolutely a lie

from the pit of hell that if your fiancee does not

give you sex it shows she doesn’t love you. How

can you use sex as a LOVEOMETRE? Have you

never slept with ladies you didn’t truly love? If

you haven’t then let me tell you that many people

are having sex with people they never love. And

the men are themselves the worst culprits.

If sex is a proof of love then we have to conclude

that prostitutes love all the men they sleep with.

If sex is a proof of love then we have to go about

sleeping with our best friends and even family

members to show how deeply we love them.

Even married couples, do not have sex to prove

their love. They rather have sex because sex is

part of marriage and it is meant for both

procreation and recreation – child birth and

enjoyment. Don’t you know that there are married

couples who are not genuinely in love but they

still have sex as a matter of duty or just for


Surely, sex plays a major role in love affairs. But

Eccl 3:1 says, “For everything there is a

season…” It is never the right season to have sex

in a relationship. This is because sex is a blood

covenant between husband and wife not boyfriend

and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says, “Adam knew his

wife”. It does not say “Adam knew his girlfriend”.

Stop going that far with the lady. If you want to

know about a woman’s love for you sex is never

the answer. Leave her alone to serve God right for

your own sake if you truly want to marry her.

Song of Songs 2:7 says, “I charge you, O

daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelle…that you


The gazelle is a very swift animal. It runs at least

96 km per hour. Bible compares romance to the

gazelle. If you start romance at the wrong time

you may crush because you will not be able to

stop it from running your life at top speed. So

until you are married, don’t AWAKEN LOVE. Sex

has been the main reason for most broken hearts

and disappointments.

Sex is called love-making because it involves the

body, soul and spirit. Do you want your soul and

spirit to be tied to somebody who is not married

to you? Can you stand the consequences, Mr.

Young Man? Hear the Bible:

“O my son, O son of my womb, O son of my vows,



KINGS.” (Prov. 31:2)

Sex before marriage can destroy you, even your

Christian life. The funny thing is some

Brothers in Christ even worry the

Sisters in Christ for sex. So God says, “My

son…son of my vow”. You are a son of God so

don’t waste your energy on women. You should

rather be teaching her chastity and help her serve

God well.

Seeking love from sex is like looking for Jesus in

an empty tomb.(Word) Take it easy. When you marry

you will be fed up with sex. Your wife will be

chasing you with it and you will be running away,

saying, “Oh I’m tired, why?”. Take time okay, Wait patiently. It will soon be laid at

your doorstep and you will notice how stupid it is

to chase sex when you are not married.

If you want a woman to prove her love to you,

allow her some space to be herself. Do not force

your will on her or control her. Her love, by

nature, will push her to do things that will signal

to you that you are her top priority. She will be

ready to marry you, than just have fun with you.

She will not be interested in you showering things

on her but rather, she would want both of you to

set your life and future right. She will support

your dreams and visions and help you build up

your Christian life. In fact, she will exhibit the

spirit of humility and you will also discover she is

a precious jewel in a glass jar, reserved for you


So from today, even if she herself brings sex, tell

her…”Do not awaken love until it is time.” And if

you guys love each other, plan about marrying

and submit your plans to God. He will bless it and

put you two together as one.. Ladies…you should also

read before sending to him

I wish u read all to the last…..our ladies are dying in the hands of some unmerciful men.
 Sex has turned many ladies into a mystery of

thinking what they feel for a particular guy is true love.
You meet a guy, he takes you out; He had a

great sex with you, it was like heaven to you. He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him so much

you start assuming both of you are meant to

be together as husband & wife.
You start dreaming of your future with him

while he’s just having fun. Your feelings for him has blindfolded you from seeing things from the reality point

of view. You find yourself infatuated with him just because you don’t want to feel used & dumped.
Sometimes you need to sit down & ask yourself; what do i really love about this guy? 
Do I see Christ in him? Is he a guy I can boldly take to my pastor? Can I introduce him as my husband to people who

are responsible? You know the guy is not

capable of being a good husband & father; yet you want to kill yourself because of him. But sometimes you need

to differentiate between what you just feel and what you really deserve. (Deep)
Don’t start dreaming of your future with a guy who is just catching his fun. Don’t attach a permanent feeling to a temporal person. Don’t open up your heart to

a guy who doesn’t open his bible. Stop chasing

after a guy who doesn’t chase after God.(Word👌🏻)
Look, Maybe as a lady your lifestyle is not

pleasing to God, today is your day of salvation. Don’t wait till when you marry & divorce before you realize you need Jesus. You don’t have to wait till when you become a single mother before you aspire to

be an evangelist.
Give your life to Jesus now and He will give

you a man who will take care of you. You cannot receive anything from God until you first receive His only Son

because Jesus is everything that God has given for you. 
Pls share with all youth on ur contact list 

Give to ur female frnds…Give to ur male friends.. First lengthy broadcast. I think I love the message i[truncated by WhatsApp]


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